Well, I finally took a week off. A real one.

Let me tell you, it was HARD. I had time. I wanted to research, be productive, and catch up on all the life things I had been putting off. Yet, I didn't. I've learned, through multiple stages of burnout, that real rest requires me to be still, to nap, to listen to my body, and to master the art of nothingness.

Now, doing nothing in Miami poolside was a little extreme, but if you know me, you know I go all in when I do something. Hehe.

I ignored messages, empowered my team to handle things, to trust their own decision making, and came back this week feeling sooooo good.

I read somewhere that women's brains are still working on 6 to 8 tasks cognitively while they are sleeping, compared to men's 2 to 3 tasks.

LADIES, THIS IS WHY WE'RE ALWAYS TIRED!

Even our subconscious can't keep up with us.

Turning off requires more discipline than hustle does. Knowing what works for you, whether that is breathwork, meditation, or a stroll outside, pick your thing, find time to just be, focus on just one thing, and find joy in being a little more still.

Spring is here, it's finally warm in New York. Thank you Baby Jesus!!!

What if this new season is asking you to arrive at it rested?

AI may be a tech revolution, but this is your gentle reminder that you are not a robot, so stop treating yourself like one. Even bots need recharges, and Claude has outages. Where's your turn off point?

THIS WEEK’S MOOD <3

♡ This Week's Mood ♡

  • The version of rest that is actually rest, not rest with a side of productivity guilt.

  • Saying yes to family time and private moments social media didn’t get to see

  • Returning to yourself before you return to your inbox.

  • The quiet satisfaction of choosing your bed over the party.

  • The pride in knowing your team can run the business while you’re away.

Business & Marketing

  • Substack raises its prices for creators, and the debate restarts Every few months this conversation comes back around: what does it actually cost to build an audience on someone else's platform? Substack's latest moves are a reminder that no platform is neutral, and the creators who will fare best are the ones who treat their list like an asset they own, not a feature they rent. If your newsletter strategy lives entirely inside someone else's house, this is your cue.

  • LinkedIn's algorithm is now rewarding "expertise content" over personal updates Translation: the era of the humble brag milestone post is quietly being deprioritized in favor of content that actually teaches something. This is good news if you have something to say and have been holding back because it feels too niche. Being specific is more valuable than relatable.

  • More small business owners report that their best customers came from community, not advertising This one keeps proving itself true no matter how many ad platforms promise otherwise. Community builds a different kind of loyalty than targeting does. The brands getting this right are not spending more. They are showing up more consistently, in fewer, more intentional places. Worth examining where your energy is actually going.

Culture & Lifestyle

Tech & Leadership

The Bigger Pattern We're Watching

  • The women who are winning right now are not the ones who went hardest in Q1. They are the ones who spent January through March making quieter, more deliberate choices, and are now in a position to act from a place of clarity.

  • Rest is being reframed, slowly, from a reward into a strategy. The shift is happening in business conversations, in leadership research, and in the way women are talking to each other about what sustainability looks like.

  • There is a difference between being unavailable and being unreliable. A lot of women have not learned that distinction yet because they were never given permission to test it. You can be harder to reach and still be someone people trust.

  • The platforms are shifting toward depth. The algorithms are shifting toward expertise. The culture is shifting toward intentionality. Everything is pointing in the same direction, and it is not toward more noise.

  • Spring is a psychological reset whether you plan for it or not. The question is whether you are entering it depleted or with something to give.

ICYMTP (In Case you Missed the Pod)

Listen to the full episode: Youtube | Spotify

We’re on episode eight of season two and if you have been sleeping on the pod, now is a good time to catch up. A few weeks ago Nathi Narciso came back for her second appearance and talked about burnout, boundaries, and the invisible weight of being first gen in a way that I’m still tearing up about.

If you missed it, this is your reminder to get back on your favorite podcast streamer and take a listen on your drive/walk to work this morning

BEFORE YOU GO

You don’t have to have a hard enough week, or a big enough win, or a complete enough to-do list before you are allowed to stop. That is not how it works, and most of us know that intellectually and still live like it isn't true.

This week reminded me that the person I am when I give myself real space is someone I like more. She thinks clearly. She’s generous. She makes better decisions. She’s is more HER, and that turns out to matter more than anything.

Take the walk. Leave the party early. Read the fun beach read.

The work will still be there.

xx, V

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